Book Club | January & February

Book Club J+F

One of my resolutions for 2014 is to read 75 books. I accomplished this goal last year, but I also had a lot more free time (I was traveling without responsibilities for 3 months of it!) and as I’ve written before, I didn’t feel like I was reading “bravely”. In 2014 I want to read challenging books with depth, because those are usually the ones that leave an impression on me. In the spirit of this goal, I’ll be sharing my favourite books every month or so on the blog. 

The Defining Decade / I watched her TED talk and immediately knew I wanted to read the book. First of all, I’m so glad I’m discovering this information about how to make the most of your twenties while I’m actually in my twenties. Her tips are straightforward and smart, and she is not afraid to challenge us twenty-somethings to push ourselves and examine our own limiting beliefs. I find myself bringing up ideas from this book in conversation with others, such as the idea of identity capital or of really mapping out a timeline of the coming years to get a true sense of how much time you have. 

Sisterland / Curtis Sittenfeld is one of my favourite authors, and I’ve been looking forward to this book for a few years now. Happily, I wasn’t disappointed one bit. I think her greatest strength is being able to put into words some of the subtle feelings, situations and small details we all experience in our lives. Her ability to do that brings such a realness to her writing and makes it so much more relatable. The premise of this book involves psychic ability which sort of threw me off at first, but of course she’s so talented she can pull it off believably. I also loved this interview she did about the book.

The Remains of the Day / On the surface, it’s a simple story about a longtime English butler going on a road trip across England. This was another very subtle book: it doesn’t hit you over the head with its message, but it rings through clear as day. It’s told in the first person, which is even more interesting because the narrator is a little unreliable and his telling of the story is naturally clouded by his beliefs, judgments and misunderstandings. It’s actually quite a heartbreaking story in the end, but a beautiful novel. 

David and Goliath / I absolutely adore Malcolm Gladwell’s work. He’s unafraid of controversial theories and radical ideas, and I love that his essays always challenge me to consider things differently. This book offers that the way we think about disadvantages and advantages is flawed and limited, and the way we see underdogs is often wrong as well. I zipped through this one, but it was fascinating and enjoyed talking to my family about some of its ideas. 

Where’d You Go, Bernadette? / I really loved this book. It was very, very funny, often in quiet, clever ways. I liked that it explored misunderstandings and confusion and crossed wires, and that the characters were flawed but self-reflexive and smart. It was thoroughly enjoyable and just a little bit silly. 

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As always, you can see all the books I’ve read and plan to read on GoodReads. Also, if you have any great book recommendations for me, I’d love to hear them! Let me know in the comments below. 

Inspiration | March 7

I immediately downloaded all of the fonts from this list I didn’t already have. They’re so beautiful! 

Some truly wise, wonderful words from Ira Glass for all kinds of creators. 

I thought the Oscars were sort of meh, but I loved these gorgeous portraits taken at the Vanity Fair after party. 

I really needed to read this post about writing + it’s packed full of great tips. 

This post, How to Have a Great Life Without Spending a Lot of Money, was just so smart and intuitive and feel good. 

I adored this article on scientifically proven ways to be incredibly happy. Most of it I’d heard already, but they put a good spin on the information and added some fresh extra details. 

From the same website, I loved the 7 qualities of uber-productive people, especially #2: “they see fear the way other people view lunch”.

This little infographic on ways to engage with creativity was sort of paradigm-shifting: it stopped me from thinking that creation is always better than consumption and set it up more like a continuum. I’m on a huge Austin Kleon kick these days, I love his work + ideas. 

Over at Guinea Pigging Green, I reviewed one of my favourite vegan restaurants!

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By the time you read this, I’ll be in Korea! Happy weekend, everyone. 

Lately | March

Currently March 5

Staring at my bags, packed in the corner of my otherwise empty room.

Flying to Korea tomorrow.

Amazed at all the synchronicity I’ve experienced as this big move came together. 

Content that I’ve been able to say my goodbyes-for-now to almost all of my loved ones. 

Giggling (still) over how gosh-darn cute these Korean flag cupcakes I made turned out. 

Designing a website & logo for a new venture I’m really excited about.

Drinking a lot of chocolate almond milk and white wine.

Eating a batch of these amazing cookies, one by one. 

Loving the fact that it’s still light out around 6PM nowadays.

Turning pro (slowly but surely) after reading the awesome book.

Editing interesting videos for the Red Tent Sisters. 

Discovering new podcasts I can fall in love with – the comments section in this article helped! 

Nervous about starting to teach children on Monday.

Staying positive. 

Grateful for all the love and supportive words I’ve gotten from everyone around me about my move to Korea. 

Resolving to get back to my yoga practice + start taking more photos again. 

Filling notebooks with ideas and quotes. 

Planning to watch all this year’s Oscar-nominated movies…of course, now that the Oscars are over, right?

Happy to be escaping the frigid temperatures and snow to go to a warmer climate. 

Excited/disbelieving/overwhelmed by the fact that in a few days I will be living in Korea. 

Feeling BLESSED. It’s a wild and wonderful life. 

I’m Moving To Korea!

Visa

I have some pretty exciting news to share today: I’m moving to Busan, Korea!

As I’ve begun to tell friends and family about this big move, I’ve gotten a lot of questions about the decision and the details, and I’ll answer them Q-and-A style below.

What! That’s crazy. What will you be doing there?

I know, it’s pretty surreal. I’m going to be teaching English at a private language school to young Korean children.

When are you going? How long will you be there for? 

I’m flying out later this week. My contract is for 1 year, but I plan to go travelling around South East Asia for at least a few months afterwards!

Why Korea? Aren’t you worried about your Northern neighbours?

Korea has one of the best systems set up for foreign teachers to come and teach English. The pay is excellent, and the industry standard currently is to offer great benefits to foreign teachers, including health insurance, your airfare to Korea, and a furnished apartment. Also, my friend Dylan is currently teaching in Korea, approximately 5 minutes from where I will be teaching (!), so knowing someone there was a big part of my choice of where to go.

I’m actually not worried about North Korea at all. For the most part, the articles I read on the subject said something along the lines of this: “South Koreans are used to the shenanigans of the North, and they appear quite indifferent when it comes to anything relating to it. The only time you’ll hear about North Korea is when you talk to anyone from home.”

How did you get this awesome gig!?

I’m going to write a more in-depth post about the process of getting from point A, deciding to go, to point Z, actually arriving in Korea, so stay tuned for more details in the near future.

Updated: Here is my post on getting an ESL teaching job in Korea!

Why do you want to go halfway around the world for a whole year to teach English to children?

There are a lot of reasons.

  • I’m not ready to settle down and start building my life in one place just yet. I have the adventure bug, and this job seems like a great compromise.
  • I still want to travel and explore! While I’ll be working a regular job during this year away and I’ll have just 2 weeks of vacation (same as most entry-level jobs), the difference is I’ll be somewhere exotic and I can travel to awesome places on weekends like Tokyo or Shanghai!
  • I want to save up as much money as possible to fund the education and experiences I want to have over the next few years. It’s possible to realistically save $17,000 teaching in Korea, which means a lot more freedom for when I return to Canada.
  • I hope to gain a lot more skills. I’m going to use the time in Korea to learn how to teach and relate to groups of people (including adorable children!), get more leadership and educational experience, pursue other passions like photography and writing, and take steps towards launching a business.
  • I’m especially excited about this opportunity to immerse myself in a completely foreign country with its own language, customs and traditions I still know relatively little about. It’s a whole new world, and it’s going to be hilarious and inspiring and frustrating.
  • I absolutely don’t want to regret not doing this later.

Where exactly will you be living?

I’m going to be living about 10 minutes from Haeundae beach, which is the biggest beach in Korea, and pretty beautiful too.

Do you speak Korean?

No, but I’m learning. Surprisingly, knowing Korean is not a pre-requisite for being an ESL teacher in Korea, but I’ve learned how to say hello (annyeong-haseyo!) and thank you (kamsahamnida!) as well as a couple other phrases, and I’m learning how to read Hangul, the Korean alphabet.

Are you a trained teacher?

Equally surprising, being a teacher is not a prerequisite for being an ESL teacher in Korea either! They’re mainly interested in attracting native speakers of English, so the pre-requisites are to be from a country whose official language is English and to have earned an undergraduate degree in English – the language, not the subject. It’s also an asset if you have experience working with children, or as a tutor – I’ve done both, which helped during my interviews. But many of the schools provide their own curriculum and lesson plans, so teaching experience isn’t mandatory.

What are you most nervous about?

Being gone for a whole year! A year feels like a long time. I’m also nervous about the realities of teaching children, navigating a culture so different from my own, not speaking enough of the language, whether I’ll be able to eat vegetarian/vegan, and offending a Korean accidentally!

What are you most excited about?

So many things! The chance to live in a completely new culture. Spaland. Living ten minutes from the beach. Interacting with adorable kids every day. Cheap bibimbap. Being a relatively short trip away from Japan, China, Thailand and other beautiful exotic locales. Living on my own again. Getting to be a goofy teacher. Exploring all of the awesome things that Korea has to offer.

Will you be blogging about your adventures?

Of course! It’ll all be right here on the blog.

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Did I miss any of your questions? Feel free to ask in the comments below! I’m truly thrilled about this next great safe adventure in my life, thanks for following along.

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