Inspiration: March 17

Inspiration March 17 >> Life In Limbo

I’ve said it before but I have to say it again: I love Rising Tide Society. It’s essentially a group of lovely people doing creative things that get together and talk about business. The March meetup was this past week and it was such a highlight.

This trailer gave me all the feels.

For fellow bullet journal lovers! Doesn’t this make you want to write so much stuff down?

Serial is launching a new podcast called S-Town! I’m hoping it has Serial Season 1 vibes. I can’t wait.

Revisited some feminism 101 stuff last night so I have a handy dandy link at the ready about the wage gap! I’ll also throw in a great one about transgender rights because I love John Oliver. I also plan on re-watching Miss Representation and The Hunting Ground soon – both are on Netflix. Always good to refresh one’s memory on these topics.

6 types of people who do not deserve to hear your shame story. Oh man this is so good.

I’m listening to this podcast episode right now which is about the differences in how women and men communicate and it is blowing my dang mind.


Another super-inspiring week around these here parts. Life is so good! I feel so much love in my life from my friends, my family, even the guys who work at my local coffee shop (love y’all!). It’s been bitterly cold in Toronto this week but the sun is shining, I’ve laughed my head off every single day, and I feel connected to my community. Is there anything better?

One of my favourite quotes is from Kurt Vonnegut, who wrote:

“And I urge you to please notice when you are happy, and exclaim or murmur or think at some point, ‘If this isn’t nice, I don’t know what is.’”

So: if this isn’t nice, I don’t know what is. Happy weekend everyone. xo.

Inspiration: March 10

Inspiration March 10 >> Life In Limbo

This new campaign makes me feel proud to live in Toronto.

I wish I didn’t identify with so much of this whole post. One of my favourite writers and former bloggers wrote about what it’s really like to be a woman. Edit: this is a private Facebook account of a blogger I follow. I’m still leaving it here because it’s great.

Protip: if you install this Chrome extension you can speed up any video. Helpful for longer talks! I find I can go to 1.5x without it being too distorted or hard to follow.

Proof that you don’t even need to understand someone else to support them.

Dear Sugar is always wonderful, but this episode felt really fresh and was so interesting to me.

I signed up for an intro month of ClassPass this week and went to a yoga class with my friend Dylan. Turns out it was – surprise! – super hard hot yoga, so my arms are still thanking me. Still, I’m excited about ClassPass and hope it will encourage me to work out more and try new things.

I love Tony & Sage Robbins and have been really inspired by their interviews together lately. They seem to have such a grounded, loving relationship. Here’s one I got tons of insights from this week.


It was another amazing week, for all kinds of reasons. I got great news, I spent time with so many wonderful women I care about deeply, I talked on the phone to my long distance bestie, I played with a puppy, I had book club and coffee dates and a pedicure and hung out with my fave baristas. I watched That Thing You Do! I also came down with a cold, had trouble sleeping and got some uncertain news about my living situation. All that said? Life is good. Life is beautiful. I am happy and I am loved and so are you. xo.

 

Inspiration: March 3

Inspiration March 3: Life In Limbo

I particularly resonated with this episode of The Lively Show, which led to some big aha moments for me around arbitrary goals set by my ego and how I can manifest good stuff more effectively.

This is so good: 43 things learned in 43 years. One of my favourites: “Examining your motivations with radical honesty is a lifetime commitment. And it’s as painful as it is rewarding.”

I’m back to using Asana to keep track of my to-dos and loving it! Also still loving Trello and Workflowy for other purposes, but Asana has re-captured my heart, especially the calendar function.

My friend Sonja introduced me to Alanis Morissette’s podcast this week and I have been loving it! Think: super deep dives into ideas about relationships, mindfulness, and psychology. Really good stuff.

I don’t go to bed quite this late, but can relate wholeheartedly! My whole life I’ve struggled to get up at the same time as everyone else.

Notebooks are good places to have bad ideas, and good ideas for that matter. I love my notebooks.


Home is Toronto! The last couple of weeks have been really, really good ones. I feel like I’m starting to find my flow here in the city, make some friends, and spend more time with my family than I have since high school! It feels amazing. I’ve been home at my mom’s little hideaway for a few days and it’s so lovely to do my work in the sunshine with the puppy beside me, and then go for walks in the valley in the late afternoon. Being here is always beautiful. I hope you have a wonderful weekend!

 

Book Club: January + February

Book Club 2017: January + February >> Life In Limbo

I love to read, and I love to talk about the books I like best with other people. Every couple months here on the blog I choose my favourites from what I’ve read lately and write about them. As always, you can see everything I’m reading on my Goodreads profile. You can also check out what I’m reading in real time at #stephlovestoread on Instagram.

My reading life took a bit of a back seat in February as I focused on some new career opportunities and – let’s be honest here – watched way too much TV in the evenings rather than curling up with a book. For that reason, it’s been good motivation (and lots of fun) to be part of a book club again: so far we’ve read Homegoing and The Happiness Equation, and this weekend we’re meeting to discuss Sapiens. All three have been great, and it’s always nice to deepen my love of reading by joining a group to talk more about books!

I read several good books over the past couple months and thoroughly enjoyed all of them! To keep things short, I’ll just mention my top 4 recommendations here, but you can always follow along on Goodreads.

Book Club 2017: January + February >> Life In Limbo

The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck by Mark Manson

It’s no secret that I love Mark’s writing – he’s made many an appearance in my inspiration posts. I listened to his new book as an audio book at the very beginning of the year and really enjoyed it. He always shares a lot of interesting and counter-intuitive ideas that I haven’t heard many other places before, and his book was no exception. I really like how realistic and practical he is, which sets his book apart from other self-help stuff. Don’t let the aggressive tone of the title put you off (he explains more about why he uses the F word so much here) – despite the impression the cover gives, it contains lots of helpful advice and perspective shifts for just about anyone (aka: not just white, male entrepreneurs).

The Invisible Bridge by Julie Orringer

I’ve read many a book about World War II, but never one quite like this one. I think what I liked best about it is how the author really takes her time telling the story, in the sense that the book spans several years worth of time for the characters. She doesn’t really skip over parts, nor does the book describe details in excess, so what results is this really beautiful depiction of their lives, each getting its due but not lingering. Any section of the book could have easily been its own novel because it was so interesting and rich, but instead she weaves them together to do something even more evocative: show characters who are not solely defined by their experiences during the war. So many books about wars are only about that brief moment in the characters’ lives – in this book, she puts the characters fully into context, so you experience along with them the slow creeping up of the war and the growing hatred of that era. Getting to ‘know them’ before the travails of war is also a powerful narrative tool, because you get a true sense of the indignity and horror of ordinary people being ripped from their lives. Oh, and it’s a beautiful love story. This was a terrifying book to be reading right around the time of the U.S. inauguration and in those first scary weeks.

The Sky is Everywhere by Jandy Nelson

The best thing I can say about Jandy’s books is that they make me physically feel things. Reading them is so much fun that it makes me giddy – it makes me feel like I’m the one falling in love, not the characters. I read I’ll Give You the Sun in December and it made my list of Best Books of 2016, and as soon as I finished it I put this one (her first novel) on hold at the library. What else can I say except that these books are fun, lovely, and highly romantic. I can’t wait for her next one to be released! It’s meant to be coming out in 2017 at some point.

Underground Airlines by Ben H. Winters

A chilling thought experiment about what might have happened had the Southern United States not abolished slavery while the Northern States did, had they compromised to avoid the Civil War. It follows the logic that the North was motivated to preserve its human values while the South wanted to preserve its ‘business interests’. It’s pretty sickening to imagine, though it also serves as a stark reminder that history could easily have gone a different way, not to mention the fact that slavery was not abolished particularly long ago, all things considered. It also doesn’t feel all that far-fetched, which is of course appalling and sad. I think it was well-written, even if I disagree somewhat with the idea of a white man writing about the experiences of people of colour – it made me wince a couple of times.


You can see all my book recommendation blog posts here.

What’s the best thing you’ve read lately? Tell me your recommendations! 

 

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