Inspiration | January 16

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I absolutely loved this article about one woman’s experience using a questionnaire to fall in love. The questions themselves are here and they sparked some great conversations at dinner with friends this week. Spoiler: the questions are really hard to answer!

I read two of Rainbow Rowell’s books this week, Landline and Fangirl, and was obsessed with both of them. They made me feel a whole bunch of (happy, romantic) feelings.

Jess Lively had an awesome podcast this week about being intentional in 2015. The really great shownotes for the episode are here and I especially liked this older post she linked to of the top 10 books to accompany the top 10 New Year’s Resolutions.

A blog reader sent me this infographic about banh mi that breaks down all the different kinds and what to expect. I’m planning on being in Vietnam in May so this is very helpful.

A really, really beautiful studio makeover.

On Guinea Pigging Green (the podcast I co-host) this week we are talking about our own intentions and goals for 2015! Lots of good stuff in this episode. The shownotes are here.

I updated my photography portfolio this week! Reminiscing and looking back through my photos makes me so happy.

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My inspirations were short but sweet this week. It’s been another hectic week and one where I didn’t feel overly inspired: mostly I had my head in a book and tried not to worry too much about the fact that I’m only in Korea for another 2 1/2 months with a ton to figure out before I leave. I have a good friend from home (!!!) coming to stay with me this weekend (she just moved to Korea a few weeks ago) and I think it’ll be a wonderful weekend. Have a good one!

Boracay Island, Philippines

Boracay03Boracay was absolutely a dream. A lot of our friends from Korea were on the island at the same time, so it was so fun to just walk down the beach and run into people we know. We also made friends with a few of the locals who live on the island and spent a few days running around with them too. There were motorcycle rides (sorry mom), grilled fish on the beach, tons of swimming, a lot of fruit shakes, (too) many late nights and early mornings, beautiful sunsets, great meals, a little bit of a lot of rain for a short time, excellent full body massages for $8, cheap beer and fire dancing. It was so great that as soon as I got home I was perusing flight prices to get me back there. It was amazing to have a break from Korea and especially somewhere warm and sunny and with so many friendly people. I really hope I can explore more of the beautiful Philippines soon.

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Favourites:

Damianas / Ti Braz / Fuel: This cool, quaint little restaurant has 3 menus (and a bar!) and was one of my favourite spots on the island. A friend of mine is the head chef here, and his Filipino food was hands down the most authentic and delicious I tried during my week in the Philippines. There are also delicious juices and smoothies here, and a whole wall full of fresh, yummy options for the homemade crepes made right in front of you.

Spider House: If you walk all the way down White Beach and follow the curve of the coast, you’ll eventually come to this beautiful, perfect restaurant and bar. It’s hard to explain this place: it’s built into the cliff, it’s all open to the ocean, the floors are bamboo and only slightly rickety, there’s a bamboo ladder leading from the restaurant straight down into the ocean (and a diving platform), the food is delicious, the drinks are good and the owner is very friendly. It’s magic.

Tilapia n’ Chips: This little restaurant is a little away from the beach, up by the main road, and doesn’t have the beachfront views. But! It’s delicious and inexpensive. There’s a lot of touristy food on Boracay, and we had a few slightly disappointing meals before we found spots that we loved, like this place.

Crafty’s Rooftop Bar: This place is in an unlikely place – the roof of a grocery store right on the main road. You walk through the brightly-lit store and up the four flights of stairs and come up to an adorable rooftop bar with great vibes, views over the island and really yummy Indian food.

Real Coffee: Our favourite place to have breakfast. The second floor window seats have the best views of the beach, the staff are friendly, the food is good, my friends who like coffee tell me the coffee is good, and their famous calamansi muffins are 100% worth the hype.

Jonah’s Fruit Shakes: Our other favourite place to have breakfast. There are hundreds of places that sell cheap fruit shakes on Boracay, but these ones are the best. They have so many different flavours and they’re all so yummy. My favourites were mango pineapple and mango banana. Om nom.

Villa Lourdes: While our shower and the wifi in our room rarely worked, and we got a rude wakeup call every morning from the roosters in the yard, the location of this Airbnb was absolutely perfect and the price was right. We had a room with a double bed, a bunk bed, and a mattress on the floor up in a second-floor loft room. It was perfect for us and right in the heart of it all in Station 2, only a 5 minute walk from the beach.

2015: Grace

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For the past two years, I’ve chosen a guiding word for the year ahead. In 2013, my word was reach, which represented getting outside of my comfort zone after 4 years of doing the same thing, reaching out to others and trying to dream bigger. In 2014, I chose the word abundance, which served me in about a thousand ways this year including encouraging me to think outside the box, recognize all the possibilities open to me, and to think big instead of small. I love both of these words – I was actually reluctant to switch away from abundance, I don’t think it’s finished teaching me things – and will definitely keep them in my toolbox.

For 2015, my word is grace. I can’t say exactly where it came from, but when I was making shortlists of words for the year, grace kept appearing at the very top. This is the first of my words that has felt a little beyond me: I’m not religious, and “graceful” is not even one of the top 50 words that me or anyone I know would use to describe me. I don’t know how to embody grace, I’m pretty bad at having faith in things, I fall down a lot, and I don’t always take care of myself. But I wish I was better at all those things, which is exactly why I need this word this year.

Grace is one of those beautiful words that has so many different meanings and so many synonyms for each of those meanings. Some of my favourites are: charm, ease, kindness, charity, enhance, embellish, elevate. 

There are three ways that I want to approach grace this year:

  • Be graceful: I want to make choices that are in line with my values, stay centered, act calmly, dress well, listen to my still small inner voice, take care of myself, and not fall down so much.
  • Say grace: The way you might say grace around the dinner table to show your thanks for the food, I want to actively appreciate everything I am lucky enough to have in my life. I want to full experience and enjoy the moment. I want to tell people what they mean to me and keep in touch better.
  • Grace of the world: I want to working on letting go more and worrying less. I want to embrace that things work out the way they’re supposed to, and try to believe that “what misses me was never meant for me, and what is meant for me will never miss me.”

My choosing a word for each year is inspired by Ali Edwards’ One Little Word project. Her word this year is give which I love for all its various meanings and may adopt as one of my secondary words for the year (along with whimsy). I love having three little words that have a special meaning in my life, and I’m looking forward to seeing how grace grows with me this year.

Do you choose a word or intention to guide your year? 

More about my words of the year: Reach and Abundance. You can download that wallpaper here.

Inspiration | January 9

Inspiration January 9 >> Life In Limbo

Some awesome ideas about how to create a great 2015.

7 strange questions to help you find your purpose: I thought this was an excellent read. Really on point.

This sandwich from Shutterbean literally made my mouth water. Unfortunately it’s full of ingredients that are a bit hard to come by in Korea.

I heard this song this week and I adore it.

Actually I loved it so much I used it as the background for a video I made about our time in Boracay! I’ll be posting more about my trip in coming weeks but for now, here’s a glimpse of my time on that island paradise. #takemeback

I plan to start using these lists of common words to practice my Spanish! Yay 80/20 rule.

I love the idea of this 5 year Q&A a day journal. The Five Minute journal looks awesome too.

I needed the reminder this week that engaging with the moment is what it’s all about.

More on this in a future blog post but I’m using printed-out versions of Elise’s daily goal tracker PDF for some of my daily goals and I love them.

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I came back from vacation and hit the ground running with a new (early morning) schedule for the month of January, extra classes, an empty fridge and a head full of ideas about 2015. I still feel like I’m slowly sifting through everything and waiting for things to shake out in my brain (and life). But! I booked my flight out of Korea for April 1st, so I have a feeling things are going to start falling into place one by one. At least I hope so! Looking forward to a calm, quiet, relaxing weekend at home. Have a good one.

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